Spread Your Wings

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There are only a handful of moments in life that truly feel like the beginning of a brand new chapter. Starting college is often one of them because it's exciting, a little intimidating, and filled with the kind of uncertainty that makes you wonder whether you're ready for what's waiting on the other side, yet somehow, that's exactly what makes it so special.

For many people, it's the first real taste of independence, new friends, new routines, new responsibilities, and the freedom to slowly discover who you are when nobody else is writing the script for you anymore: Every classroom, every conversation, every unexpected opportunity becomes another small piece of the person you're growing into.

I always liked imagining this young dragon at the very beginning of that journey, sitting on the campus lawn with his backpack on his back and headphones resting comfortably around his neck; he's taking a quiet moment before the day really begins. His wings are still new to him in more ways than one; they're a reminder that growing up isn't just about getting older; it's about learning when to spread them and trusting that they'll carry you farther than you ever imagined.

One of the biggest lessons life eventually teaches us is that we usually regret the chances we never took more than the ones we did, and that doesn't mean acting recklessly or saying yes to everything that comes your way; it simply means giving yourself permission to explore, to meet new people, to join the club that caught your attention, to learn a skill you've always been curious about, or to start a conversation that might become a lifelong friendship. Those little moments often shape us far more than we realize at the time.

As he sits there beneath the bright blue sky, a gentle breeze brushing against his scales while the campus slowly comes to life around him, there's an unmistakable mixture of excitement and nervousness in his smile. He's still figuring things out, just like everyone else around him; he doesn't have all the answers yet, and that's perfectly okay. College was never meant to be about having everything figured out; it's about giving yourself the space to grow into the person you're meant to become.

Maybe that's why I find this stage of life so fascinating; it's one of the few times when the future feels wide open, full of possibilities that haven't been decided yet. Just like this young dragon, sometimes all we really need is the courage to open our wings and trust ourselves enough to see where they can take us.

If you could give one piece of advice to someone who's just starting college or another big new chapter in life, what would it be?